My Team Won so I’m Better than You

It’s the morning of the Iron Bowl 2018. For those that don’t know this is when my alma mater (Auburn University) plays their arch-rival (The University of Alabama) in football. In the state of Alabama, this is a really big deal. Bragging rights are at stake for a whole year.  If my team wins, I get to give the other teams fans a hard time about it all year. And really (if I’m completely honest about things), it means I’m better than them – at least for a little while.

When you think logically about it, it’s really strange that how one group of young (typically 18-22 years old) men (that I don’t know) do on a football field today compared to another group will affect how I feel about myself. (Full disclosure – my team is predicted to lose badly today, so that could lead to my philosophic frame of mind about this.)

This isn’t limited to just sports fans. Unfortunately, for many of us, which political party you identify with has become your “team”. Self worth is tightly linked to how your side does compared to the other side. The other “team” is the enemy. Their supporters are evil and must be defeated – not just on the athletic field or at the ballot, but in life.

It’s much easier to claim “our team’s” victories for our own (“We won! We won!”) than to actually get in the arena and win your own battles. Confession – when Auburn won the National Championship a few years ago, I paid a lot of money to be in the stadium and was overwhelmed with joy when the game ended. (“We finally did it!”) But – I had nothing to do with it.

Enjoy the games today. Good luck to your team. But – after the game, I’ll be working on my own game plan that will actually affect my life. I hope you’ll join me.