My Team Won so I’m Better than You

It’s the morning of the Iron Bowl 2018. For those that don’t know this is when my alma mater (Auburn University) plays their arch-rival (The University of Alabama) in football. In the state of Alabama, this is a really big deal. Bragging rights are at stake for a whole year.¬† If my team wins, I […]

More thoughts on Gratitude

Several years ago, I took my kids to see Diary of a Wimpy Kid at the movie theater. The way that the main character ranks himself in comparison with the other kids at school really hit me between the eyes. I thought “I do that”. I’m not proud of it, but I do. (If you […]

Grateful for the New Year

Happy New Year! 2017 was a year of changes for me. My oldest child graduated from high school and went off to college. In my work life, I finished the project I had been working on for a couple of years and, for the first time in about 20 years, felt like I had a […]

Forest and Trees for Projects

When you’re doing a non-trivial project, it’s basically impossible to focus on the forest and the trees at the same time. You have to get down into the details (trees) to get the project done, but while you’re doing the work: you may lose track of time you may not realize that the project requirements […]

Tuition at The University of Life Experiences

When you’re about to spend some money on a service (hiring a new lawyer to help you form an entity, hiring a web designer to help with a new site, etc.) – it’s easy to get bogged down with thoughts of “Am I paying too much?” or “Is that the best rate I can get?” […]

Here – I made this

We picked up our middle son from Auburn University yesterday. He had been there for a week-long creative writing summer program for high school students. The “graduation ceremony” was held at a Starbucks on campus where students who wanted to (most of them did) got up to read some of what they had written during […]

Random Notes from Sloss Tech 2017

TechBirmingham hosted Sloss Tech 2017 at the Lyric Theatre today. When I first saw the list of speakers, I must confess – I wasn’t overwhelmed. I mulled it over and decided to go anyway, mostly to support the Birmingham tech ecosystem. (“Got to support the team”.) I’m glad I did. I thought it was a […]

Are you comfortable hiring plumbers?

If you’re thinking of going into business for yourself, you might ask yourself – am I comfortable hiring plumbers (or handymen, or mechanics)? This may seem like a weird question, but an easy trap to fall into for new business owners is feeling like you have to do everything yourself. If you’ve never been the […]

There is no “them” – only “us”

I passed someone on the street the other day that I associate with a clique of people (that I’m not a member of). I realized that I had subconsciously pigeonholed her as a representative of “them” and that was how I thought of her – as a member of that group, not as an individual. […]

Embracing “off the rack”

This one is geared towards my programmer brothers (and sisters!) If you’re buying a suit, you can have one custom-made or you can buy “off the rack”. The Venn diagram¬†intersection of software developers and people that have suits custom-made for them is pretty small (at least where I live), so most of us have embraced […]